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Saturday October 9, 2010
    PROMISE ME: How a Sister's Love Launched the Global Movement to End Breast Cancer
    PROMISE ME: How a Sister's Love Launched the Global Movement to End Breast CancerNancy G
    Brinker with Joni Rogers
    ISBN 978-0-307-71812-9
    356 pages
    $25.99

    WHAT WE HAVE: One Family's Inspiring Story About Love, Loss, and SurvivalAmy Boesky
    Gotham
    ISBN 978-1-592-40551-0
    327 pages
    $26

    Reviewed by Nora Krug
    For those who have been touched by cancer in some way -- is there anyone who hasn't? -- reading one of the many cancer memoirs burdening bookstore shelves is always a risk. Will the book dredge up memories we'd care to forget? Or will it offer empathy, hope and maybe even a little gallows humor? Two new additions to the genre offer all the above.
    Nancy Brinker is a cancer survivor, but it is her sister, Susan G. Komen, who in death has become a symbol of the disease. In "Promise Me," Brinker tells the story, as her publisher puts it, of the love that launched a movement -- of how Brinker came to found the Susan G. Komen Foundation, the organization behind the Race for the Cure, which has transformed how we think about a pink ribbon -- and perhaps how we think about breast cancer itself. Brinker is more than a little proud of her own moxie ("I'm not everyone's cup of tea" is a running joke between her and her ex-husband), and the book is as much an ode to her own chutzpah and accomplishments as it is a compelling tale of living with cancer.
    Brinker was once married to Norman E. Brinker, the mastermind behind the Steak & Ale restaurant chain, and the two were a formidable pair in the Dallas polo and charity scene. (A friend of the Bushes, she went on to become ambassador to Hungary and White House chief of protocol and was recently awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom.) On more than one occasion, we see Brinker tramping across a field or thundering through an event, her hair "swelling like a sea urchin," her mud-spattered shoes sinking into the grass.
    The picture Brinker paints of her early life is a far more humble one, of an idyllic America in Peoria, Ill., where her parents instilled in their children a strong -- one might call it strong-armed -- sense of civic duty. In one telling anecdote, Brinker's mother pulls her car to the side of the road to admonish her children for not taking the scourge of polio seriously enough. "When you see someone in need, you give. When you see something wrong, you (BEG ITAL)fix(END ITAL) it," Brinker recalls her mother as saying. The next day, the girls held a variety show and donated the proceeds to a local hospital.
    Even more foreboding was the threat of cancer. Throughout their 20s, Brinker and Komen had multiple scares with breast lumps, "an inconvenience we both learned to live with," Brinker explains. Komen, however, "was happily lulled into a complacent sense of confidence" that made her later diagnosis with an advanced case of breast cancer all the more troubling. (Brinker herself was later diagnosed with an early stage of the disease.)
    Towering over the narrative, however, is Brinker's outsize personality. At Komen's funeral, for example, Brinker writes of her outrage, not just at her sister's suffering and death, but at the undertaker, whose makeup job she deemed inferior. Brinker ordered him to remove it, pulled out her own cosmetic case, "leaned down over the edge of the coffin" and redid it herself. "Suzy left us with the daytime look," she explains.
    Needless to say, Brinker, who co-wrote the book with Joni Rodgers, has a flair for the dramatic. It's a quality that makes "Promise Me" an engaging read, though some of its more theatrical moments strain credulity. A disclaimer at the front of the book warns: "I don't pretend to remember every exchange verbatim." So did her dying sister, lying in the back seat of a car, plead, haltingly, "We have to do something ... to help ... those women at the hospital. Make it better ... for them ... for their families. ... Promise me it'll be better"? It hardly matters -- it's a perfect line to inspire a movement (and sell a book), and Brinker plays it to the hilt. The Susan G. Komen Foundation has contributed roughly $1.5 billion for research and cancer programs to date. For those of us who have watched loved ones endure the disease, Brinker's chutzpah on our behalf is much appreciated.
    Like Brinker, Amy Boesky has long lived with the specter of cancer. As a child, she writes in her memoir "What We Have," she was haunted by the many women in her family who died young from ovarian cancer. "We had black-and-white photographs of all the dead aunts and grandmothers and great-aunts hanging in the hallway of our second floor," she writes. "Worrying was part of who I was." Is it any wonder, given her family's choice of decor?
    Boesky, an associate professor of English at Boston College, calls herself a "previvor," a term for people who don't have cancer but, because of family history, are predisposed to get it. Modern science -- with tests for genes like BRAC1 and BRAC2 -- has put people like her in a quandary: "Who wants to know her genetic destiny and have to live with the consequences?" she asks. Her response: not me. Instead, Boesky assumes the worst and plans accordingly: Have kids as early as possible, and then have her breasts and ovaries removed. "I didn't expect guarantees," she explains, "But I had a responsibility ... to take care of what I could."
    It would seem, then, that Boesky could offer a thoughtful, personal examination of the thorny decisions faced by previvors, as Masha Gessen did in her 2008 book, "Blood Matters." Boesky mentions, for example, that her sister avoided genetic testing out of fear that her HMO wouldn't cover surgery if she had tested positive. Unfortunately, Boesky gives little more than passing mention to such matters, instead weighing down the narrative with digressions on her marriage and struggles with baby-rearing. There's just too much here about the mundane details of her life despite the rich material of her story.
    In fact, the emotional center of the book is Boesky's mother, Elaine, who managed to dodge ovarian cancer but developed breast cancer that later spread to her bones and beyond. Elaine is an optimist and doer who upon hearing her diagnosis expressed concern about her doctor's sadness. Always full of plans and telling others not to worry, she kept an oncology textbook by her bedside along with a copy of a Hemlock Society paperback. She is an endearing, well-drawn character, which makes her decline especially difficult to witness.
    In the end, neither modern science nor pre-emptive surgery could mitigate the helplessness Boesky felt as her mother slipped away: "Just my mother and I: the two of us," she writes of one of their last meetings. "Early evening light coming through the shutters. Her wig had tipped to one side while she slept, and if I had been another kind of person, I would've scooped her up in my arms and sobbed. Instead, I stood uneasily by the doorway, still feeling sick to my stomach, my eyes swimming, wishing there was something I could do to make any of this better."
    The rewards of reading a cancer memoir are indeed uneasy. But in moments like that, they are worth the price.
    Nora Krug writes the New in Paperback column for The Washington Post Book World. Se can be reached at krugn(at symbol)washpost.com.

    Copyright 2010 Washington Post Writers Group

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    ON SECOND THOUGHT: Outsmarting Your Mind's Hard-Wired Habits
    Wray Herbert
    Crown
    ISBN 978-0-307-46163-6
    289 pages
    $25

    Reviewed by Mark Berman
    In his engaging new book, Wray Herbert delves into a subject that has topped the best-seller lists of late: the unconscious actions and reactions that affect our daily lives (think "Blink"). But ignore the subtitle's promise of self-help tips, because Herbert doesn't spend much time telling you how to circumvent your gut reactions. Instead, he's more interested in explaining how our minds process information and the implications of our cognitive quirks.
    The book starts slowly, with a discussion of unconscious physical reactions, before moving into the more interesting territory of how we comprehend numbers, the world and existence itself. "Our brains employ all sorts of tricks and shortcuts to get us through the day," Herbert writes. They can be simple, like imitating others in order to feel accepted and connected, and the littlest things can have a big impact. The font on exercise instructions, for example, can influence whether we choose to work out. Wray also cites intriguing research that shows how "our deepest psychological needs may play a big part in determining where we fall on the political spectrum." In one study, psychologists found that conservatives "have little tolerance for any messiness," whereas liberals were more likely to live amid clutter.
    Herbert, a former Newsweek columnist who writes the blog We're Only Human for the Association for Psychological Science, clearly shows the effects of various daily mental maneuvers and peppers the text with explanations of how the human mind has evolved. It's readable, meandering and eminently "Gladwellian."
    Mark Berman can be reached at bermanm(at symbol)washpost.com.

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    Friday, October 8, 2010

    "Making Our Democracy Work," more


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      BITCH IS THE NEW BLACK: A Memoir
      Helena Andrews
      Harper
      ISBN 978-0-06-177882-7
      244 pages
      $24.99

      Reviewed by Nancy Trejos
      It takes guts to write a memoir before the age of 30 -- and Helena Andrews certainly has plenty of it. "I'm such a badass. I am literally the baddest bitch on the planet," she tells us in the first chapter of "Bitch Is the New Black," her memoir-in-essays. "If there was a bitch contest between me and every other heartbroken, hissing, red-eyed, puffy-faced woman in the world, I would defeat every last one of them -- handily." Andrews' exploration of what it's like to be young, black and single in Washington, D.C., is at times cringingly frank. Still, any young professional woman, regardless of color, will relate.
      Despite her youth, Andrews, a journalist who has written for the New York Times and Politico, has quite a story to tell. With honesty and wit, she describes growing up with a nomadic lesbian mother, being the only black kid on Catalina Island, getting cyber-stalked by an ex-boyfriend and getting over the suicide of a sorority sister. She's not afraid to reveal anything, even her bra size.
      Ultimately, though, her book tries to answer one vexing question: Does being a successful, well-educated woman scare men away? Given the title, you can guess the answer. But why should it even matter to Andrews? Her book has already been optioned for a film. Maybe scaring off a few men wasn't such a bad thing after all.
      Nancy Trejos can be reached at trejosn(at symbol)washpost.com.

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      MAKING OUR DEMOCRACY WORK: A Judge's View Stephen Breyer

      Knopf
      ISBN 978-0-307-26991-1
      270 pages
      $26.95

      Reviewed by David Fontana
      Supreme Court justices are rarely seen in public, and even more rarely seen in public talking about how the Supreme Court should handle controversial constitutional cases. But since the release of his new book, "Making Democracy Work," Justice Stephen Breyer has been hard to miss doing precisely that, on shows like Charlie Rose and "Larry King Live" and at places like the National Archives in Washington.
      Five years ago Breyer wrote a book about the Constitution, but "Making Democracy Work" is a more sweeping attempt to articulate a progressive vision of that document to compete with the vision articulated by conservative jurists such as Justice Antonin Scalia. Breyer wants courts to interpret the Constitution by considering many factors, including how to make judicial decisions workable. The complexity of this pragmatic constitutional theory makes it compelling, but that same complexity makes Breyer's approach difficult for the public and politicians to accept.
      It is hard to understand Breyer's approach to the Constitution without first considering the alternative that he is responding to, conventionally called originalism. Originalism, as Scalia has described it, means that the Constitution should be interpreted according to what those alive at the time of its drafting thought its words meant. By any measure, originalism has become a major source of constitutional meaning, relied on by courts and politicians alike. When the Supreme Court decided its landmark gun rights case in 2008, Heller v. District of Columbia, the liberal and conservative justices didn't argue mostly over whether original understanding was important -- instead, they argued about what the correct original understanding of the constitutional right to bear arms should be. Liberal or conservative, we are all originalists now.
      But Breyer wants courts to rely on much more than just originalism, and he argues for a vision of the Constitution focused not just on opinions from the 18th century but also on considerations from the 21st. Breyer believes that, in ruling on constitutional issues, judges should also look to "history, tradition, precedent ... purposes and related consequences," all in an attempt "to help make the law effective" and to help courts engage in a workable relationship with the other branches of government.
      Breyer's approach has a realism that is hard to ignore. It can be difficult (and perhaps undesirable) for judges to decide cases mostly based on materials from the 18th century. Only at the most general level can someone like James Madison tell us much about what the Constitution means for free speech on the Internet or rights owed detainees at Guantanamo Bay. Many of those who otherwise subscribe to originalism allow for some departures from the original meaning. Very few judges, of any political stripe, would condone public executions, for instance.
      But just when Breyer's book starts to succeed as a sophisticated yet comprehensible academic work, it runs into problems. Simply put, pragmatism might be practical for judges to apply, but in today's climate it might be a hard political sell. Originalism urges us to ask a singular question, one that sounds heroic: What did the revolutionary generation that created the document that we revere, the Constitution of the United States, understand it to mean? In the 2012 presidential election, it will be hard to campaign against the confirmation of judges who say they decide cases based mostly on what Madison and his contemporaries thought about the Constitution. Americans revere the Founding Fathers and the American Revolution, and buy books about both in droves, and asking judges to follow the thinking of those alive at that time has a strong popular appeal.
      By contrast, deciding cases based on multiple factors can sometimes appear more legislative than judicial, particularly when those several factors include considerations such as Breyer's interest in what is workable. Scalia can be quite convincing in a public forum when he touts the single standard of originalism as the embodiment of what he calls the "rule of law as a law of rules." He also often succeeds in persuading audiences that the pragmatic approach favored by those like Breyer amounts to little more than judges deciding cases based on their personal feelings about what constitutes good policy. Ultimately, pragmatists like Breyer can sound like that dreaded figure of contemporary politics, the judicial activist, while originalists seem like the umpires that Chief Justice John Roberts held up as the models for judges at his confirmation hearings.
      In the end, then, Breyer's book is both quite successful and not successful at all. It is perhaps the most honest discussion of what a judge should do that you will ever find, all the more remarkable because it is written by a sitting Supreme Court justice. But it is also an example of the complexity that makes progressive approaches to the Constitution so challenging to sell to wider audiences.
      David Fontana is an associate professor of law at George Washington University Law School.

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        HUMAN CHAIN: POEMS
        Seamus Heaney
        Farrar Straus Giroux
        ISBN 978 0 374 17351 7
        85 pages
        $24

        Reviewed by Troy Jollimore, whose new book of poems, "At Lake Scugog," will be published next year
        Seamus Heaney is among the most famous and esteemed living poets. His 1995 Nobel Prize in Literature confirmed the image most already had of him, as a towering figure, a grandmaster, an eminence. And at the age of 71 he is, one has to admit, getting up there. Nor has he managed to avoid all the ill-effects of aging. A few years ago he suffered a stroke, which forced him to take nearly a year off from writing and other activities. Yet despite all this, Heaney still writes with the passion, freshness and vigor of a young man. "Human Chain," which sits comfortably alongside such accomplished earlier collections as "Field Work" and "Station Island," feels at times less like a late work than a first book by a remarkably gifted and promising young poet.
        That said, "Human Chain" is also -- and I mean this in the best possible sense -- an old man's book. The poems are pervaded by an awareness of mortality, of encroaching darkness. At times this awareness proves nearly too sad to bear:
        Derek Hill's saying,
        The last time he sat at our table,
        He could no longer bear to watch
        The sun going down
        And asking please to be put
        With his back to the window.
        Many of these poems feel like elegies, longing wistfully for a vanished world or expressing the desire that that world might somehow be restored. Other poems are resigned to loss. In "The Door Was Open and the House Was Dark," Heaney visits the house of his deceased friend David Hammond, to find that he feels
        for the first time there and then, a stranger,
        Intruder almost, wanting to take flight
        Yet well aware that here was no danger,
        Only withdrawal, a not unwelcoming
        Emptiness, as in a midnight hangar
        On an overgrown airfield in high summer.
        Through much of the book, though, the pain of grief and anticipated grief is made bearable through various means: most important, perhaps, being the recognition that an individual life -- and thus an individual death -- is only one small element of a much larger world. This larger world is sometimes conceived as a kind of afterlife or heaven. "So this is what an afterlife can come to?" he asks in one poem. In another he imagines a bus ride as a journey to the underworld and describes how the passengers "reboarded / And were reincarnated seat by seat."
        But the larger life need not be conceived in mythical terms: Family also provides a kind of continuity within which the particular life can find consoling meaning. "Route 110," which borrows imagery from Virgil's "Aeneid," ends with a moving birth scene:
        So now, as a thank-offering for one
        Whose long wait on the shaded bank has ended,
        I arrive with my bunch of stalks and silvered heads
        Like tapers that won't dim
        As her earthlight breaks and we gather round
        Talking baby talk.
        This tableau -- the aged spiritual voyager who will soon return to that "shaded bank" confronted with the radical newness of a soul that has just been brought from there -- suggests a kind of "human chain," the chain of genetic relations that unites us with our long-ago ancestors and our yet to be imagined successors.
        The title poem, meanwhile -- which also ends with what might be an image of death -- turns out to describe a chain of people passing bags of meal from "hand to hand." Those bags of meal bear some resemblance to human bodies, and indeed throughout this collection it is often people who are being carried: "Helping him to the bathroom, my right arm / Taking the webby weight of his underarm" (from "Album"). "Not the one who takes up his bed and walks / But the ones who have known him all along / And carry him in -- " (from "Miracle"). In "Chanson d'Aventure," it is Heaney himself, post-stroke, who is carried and loaded into the waiting ambulance with his wife beside him, spending the ride to the hospital "ecstatic and bisected / By a hooked-up drip-feed to the cannula."
        Heaney's brush with death might help explain not only why mortality is so much on his mind, but also why he seems insistent on viewing death, and other possible catastrophes, as opportunities for transformation. The opening poem, "Had I Not Been Awake," gives an account of a freak weather occurrence -- "A wind that rose and whirled" -- that ends up re-described as "A courier blast that there and then / Lapsed ordinary. But not ever / After. And not now." That transformative wind returns in the final poem, "A Kite for Aibhin," which concludes: "Until string breaks and -- separate, elate -- // The kite takes off, itself alone, a windfall." That wish -- that death might represent a liberation, a passage to a higher state of being -- is ubiquitous in this collection, and it infuses these meditative poems with a spiritual buoyancy, a subtle and reassuring joy.
        And indeed, the book is a joy on every level. The voice is strong and assured, the images are vivid and memorable. Most important, the music, as always with Heaney, is lovely. There is so much life in "Human Chain" that one wishes he were, in fact, just starting out. It is wonderful, and heartbreaking, to think of the books this promising poet might go on to write, given another 50 years or so.

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        THE LUCKY ONES: One Family and the Extraordinary Invention of Chinese America
        Mae Ngai
        Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
        ISBN 978 0 618 65116 0
        288 pages
        $26

        Reviewed by Carolyn See, who reviews books regularly for The Washington Post
        Anyone observing the controversy over illegal Latin American immigration should remember that today's high emotions are pale evocations of how the United States treated Chinese immigrants from 1882 to 1943.
        The Exclusion Laws were just what the name implied: Chinese merchants were allowed entrance, but laborers and unattached women were unequivocally barred from this country. In the last quarter of the 19th century, irate American citizens -- especially on the West Coast, from where I write -- looked around and saw entirely too many Chinese people. A strong physical, spiritual and emotional aversion possessed our country, and working-class Chinese became anathema in America. The exclusion laws weren't lifted until 1943, the middle of World War II, when the Chinese, beaten up by Japan for a decade or so, became our de facto friends.
        This book is not about the exclusion laws per se, though it could not exist without them. Mae Ngai has chosen to write about the class of Chinese who, in the early days of immigration, owed their existence to "profiting from the legal regime of racial discrimination. ... (They) became labor contractors, transportation agents, and government interpreters." These people, under white supervision, monitored the traffic from Asia to America. They were meant to help stem the tide of Chinese people who were lying like mad to reach the comparative safety of this country.
        The Chinese interpreters were one step ahead of the unfortunates they tried to control. They had access to immigration papers, boardinghouses, transportation -- something as simple yet potentially lucrative as getting an immigrant from a ship to a place to stay; their hands were on all the ropes. The author calls these people "the lucky ones," and her new book traces the story of three generations of a Chinese interpreter's family -- hard workers who attained a place in the upper middle class very early during this wave of immigration.
        They did it by working for the white man, and everything that implies. Their loyalties were toward their employers. Some of them conformed to the values and rules of their Caucasian bosses, and some of them were shameless crooks, extorting money from Chinese who were desperately trying to get into the country. They also took commissions on steamer tickets, made money by posting bond for people believed to be flight risks, and charged job seekers finder's fees.
        These interpreters were disconcertingly similar to today's "coyotes," who drive their illegal cargo across the Sonoran Desert and then pile them up in anonymous tract houses on this side of the border. The interpreters rose inevitably in the United States, but they weren't exactly beloved by either race.
        With remarkable -- some might say chilling -- objectivity, Mae Ngai follows the fortunes of her chosen family, the Tapes of San Francisco. Joseph Tape, whose Chinese name was Jeu Dip, came to this country in 1864. He was only 12. He went to work as a drayman at first, with one horse and one cart, and worked like a fiend for his whole life, mainly doing interpreting work for immigration officials. He amassed real estate, hunting lodges and luxury cars. His female relatives dressed beautifully. He married a girl by the name of Mary, who didn't even have a recorded Chinese name. The couple avoided Chinatown like the plague. (In fact, in 1900, 22 people in San Francisco died of the plague, most of them Chinese. Whites wanted to raze Chinatown, but never got around to it.)
        The Tapes had children, three girls and a boy. Joe's son made extra money from extortion and had a checkered, somewhat shameful career. Two of the girls married interpreters. Their whole thrust was to become "American," but this came at a considerable cost. Three of the four Tape children divorced or separated; the women tended to suffer from depression.
        The author leaves out a lot. She leaves out the loathsome rhetoric of hysterical, hate-filled whites against the Chinese. She writes cheerily about Chinese in locked railroad cars at the St. Louis World's Fair, but leaves out the fear and sadness that must have come from being locked up. She talks about the Angel Island immigration station (which wasn't built until 1910) but leaves out its horrors. She relies most heavily on census documents and other historical records, which are, of course, refreshingly exempt from emotion. Only some photographs and a couple of still-living descendants give any personal information.
        The Tapes exist here as the product of documents, and of course this is an interesting and informative book, but except for a few lines about depression, there's no suffering here at all. The early Tapes seem hardly to have been human. Which, of course, is what the whites thought all along.

        Copyright 2010 Washington Post Writers Group

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        MAN IN THE WOODS Scott Spencer

        Ecco
        ISBN 978 0 06 146655 7
        305 pages
        $24.99

        Reviewed by Patrick Anderson, who regularly reviews thrillers and mysteries for The Washington Post
        We don't often encounter novels that combine shrewd plotting, strong characters and gorgeous writing, but Scott Spencer's "Man in the Woods" does precisely that. It's about many things, including love, God and the random accidents that can change our lives. Spencer's most famous novel, "Endless Love" (1979), dealt with obsessive teenage passion; this one is about grown-ups confronting both the joys and dangers that love can bring.
        The lovers are Kate Ellis and Paul Phillips. When Kate appeared in Spencer's 2004 novel, "A Ship Made of Paper," she was drinking too much and losing her lover to another woman. But much has changed in the new book, set in the closing months of 1999. Kate has embraced both Alcoholics Anonymous and Christianity, and written an inspirational, best-selling book about her new life. Moreover, she's fallen wildly in love with Paul, and they're living together, along with her 8-year-old daughter, in her house in the Hudson River Valley. Good-hearted Kate, in her early 40s, is bright, articulate and lusty; taciturn Paul, a master carpenter, is 10 years older, handsome, independent and more spiritual than religious. They're one of the healthiest, happiest couples you'll find in today's fiction.
        But, this being a Scott Spencer novel, their happiness is soon imperiled. Early in the book, returning home after a frustrating day in Manhattan, Paul stops in a state park to unwind and happens on a man who is beating his dog. Paul asks him to stop, the man takes offense, a fight ensues, and, to Paul's horror, the man dies, whereupon Paul flees. When he tells Kate what happened, she fully supports him. Nothing appears in the papers, and they hope the whole thing will go away. However, we readers know what Paul and Kate do not, that a dogged ex-policeman is pursuing the case. Thus, an agonizing question hovers over the rest of the story: Will these two decent people have their happiness destroyed (perhaps by manslaughter charges) because of a senseless encounter with an unbalanced man?
        It's a good plot, but we often forget about it as we're swept along by the beauty of Spencer's writing. Here, for example, is a glimpse of Kate's daughter: "She shields her eyes with her little starfish of a hand." Kate jokes about AA gatherings where "there is an unspoken competition in these meetings, a race to the bottom, in which having suffered the greatest humiliations, the most bewildering blackouts, the most irrevocable losses of love, occupation, position, and self-respect makes you the winner." But she's not joking when she tells a friend who's fallen off the wagon: "It's like a demon, Sonny, and it's furious with you for turning your back on it. It will do anything and say anything to get you to put it inside of you."
        Born-again Kate agonizes a lot about religion: "Kate has sometimes despaired that the average intelligence in the nation of unbelievers is drastically higher than the intelligence in the devout community. ... Yet if Christ and his message are real, then the dumbbells win and the chrome domes lose." Sometimes Paul seems to have become her religion: "Holy is the silence he affords her when he sees she is thinking, holy are the windows he has placed in her house, in her life, and her soul, holy is the smell of wood, holy is the carpenter, holy is his gaze when she is speaking, holy is the catch in his breath when she kisses him. ..." Her eloquent tribute ends, finally, "Holy is his stumbling circular path to God."
        And here is Paul on Kate: "He is not unfamiliar with successful people, but he has never had a relationship with a woman of large and worldly achievement, and the pleasure it brings him to bask in the reflected glow of her success has been a surprise to Paul, with an unexpected erotic component. There is something grand about going home with a woman everybody loves." And: "He loves her expression during sex, open and undefended, with a creaturely purity and singularity of purpose."
        This is a book to savor and read aloud, a book that is variously wise, funny and heartbreaking. But how does it end? What about the man in the woods? Poor Kate worries incessantly that "they will never outrun it, it will catch up to him, to them, it will destroy everything. " The outcome must not be revealed here, except to say that it is as powerful as everything else in the book. "Man in the Woods" is one of the three best novels I've read this year -- the others are Laura Lippman's "I'd Know You Anywhere" and Jennifer Egan's "A Visit From the Goon Squad" -- and if you pressed me, I'd put it at the top of the list.

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        STORYTELLER: The Authorized Biography of Roald Dahl
        Donald Sturrock
        Simon & Schuster
        ISBN 978 1 4165 5082 2
        655 pages
        $30

        Reviewed by Michael Dirda. Visit Dirda's online book discussion at washingtonpost.com/readingroom.
        When 74-year-old Roald Dahl died from leukemia in 1990, I wrote a longish essay about the enormously popular, and often controversial, author of "James and the Giant Peach" and "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory." Waspishly opinionated, frequently offensive, a hard bargainer with publishers and a prima donna with editors, reclusive, family-focused and outrageously funny, Dahl struck me then as the Evelyn Waugh of children's literature. One could almost imagine the savage author of "Black Mischief" and "A Handful of Dust" writing "The Twits" or "Matilda."
        Having read and admired Jeremy Treglown's "Roald Dahl" (1994), I didn't think there would be much new in this authorized biography. I was wrong. Donald Sturrock's "Storyteller" enriches the now-familiar outline of an eventful life with much new information, peels away the layers of myth that Dahl promulgated about himself, and makes clear the man's immense charm as well as his cold self-possession and emotional callousness. This is a major literary biography, immensely satisfying to read and worthy of its complex subject.
        Dahl was only 3 when his Norwegian-born father died, leaving a sizable fortune (from shipping and coal). As a boy he attended prestigious Repton School, whose headmaster Geoffrey Fisher, aka "The Boss," eventually became archbishop of Canterbury. But instead of continuing on to university, young Dahl joined the Asiatic Petroleum Co., ultimately being posted to what was then Tanganyika, where he lived something of a pukka sahib life.
        With the outbreak of World War II, Dahl trained as a pilot but crashed his plane, disastrously, en route to his first post in North Africa. His nose was pushed into his face and his body mangled: He suffered from spinal problems and headaches for the rest of his life and periodically underwent palliative operations to relieve the pain. While Dahl ultimately recovered well enough to fly again -- he participated in active aerial combat over Greece -- he was ultimately deployed to Washington to work in promoting the British war interests here. He was, after all, a tall, attractive English ace with five confirmed kills -- and, he now implied, he'd been shot down in the desert.
        During his time in Washington, Dahl displayed astonishing social skills, becoming a confidant of Vice President Henry Wallace, winning the lasting friendship of newspaper magnate Charles Marsh, and bedding a series of pretty girls and older society matrons. Sturrock names names, including those of Clare Booth Luce, oil heiress Millicent Rogers and cosmetics queen Elizabeth Arden. Dahl also became a spy for British intelligence's William "Intrepid" Stephenson, the landlord of philosopher Isaiah Berlin and, because of the influence of C.S. Forester, a writer. The creator of Capt. Horatio Hornblower had been asked to use Dahl's wartime crash as the basis for a propaganda article, but over dinner with the novelist, Dahl suggested that he himself scribble an initial draft. It was so accomplished that Forester's agent sold it to the Saturday Evening Post, where it appeared in 1942 as "Shot Down Over Libya."
        With this encouragement, Dahl began to write in earnest. His first major project was a series of stories about gremlins, leprechaun-like creatures who vex pilots with all sorts of mischief. For a long time, Walt Disney hoped to make a movie based on a script Dahl wrote about gremlins, and this led to the writer spending time in Hollywood, where he hung out at Hoagy Carmichael's pool and slept with a former girlfriend of Cary Grant and Howard Hughes. But the Disney movie deal fell through, the war ended and Dahl moved back to England.
        After a couple of misjudged projects -- the novel "Some Time Never" is an example of apocalyptic science fiction -- Dahl began to publish a series of macabre and often nasty short stories. These "tales of the unexpected," as he later called them, often involved insidious wagers: In "Taste," for instance, an acquisitive father "stakes his eighteen-year-old daughter's hand in marriage in a bet against a lecherous middle-aged wine connoisseur" who must precisely identify an obscure Bordeaux's vintage and vineyard. Oddly enough, Sturrock fails to mention Dahl's most famous short story, "Lamb to the Slaughter," in which a wife who has killed her husband ingeniously disposes of the highly original murder weapon.
        The publisher Alfred Knopf liked these macabre tales and so brought out Dahl's first important book, "Someone Like You," and later followed up with its companion volume, "Kiss Kiss."
        Then, on a business trip back to New York, Dahl met the actress Patricia Neal, who was brokenhearted over the end of her affair with Gary Cooper. In short order he persuaded her to marry him and live in what was sometimes known as the "Valley of the Dahls." Their life together was rocky from the start. But the pair made a go of it for a long while, and several terrible disasters -- including the death of a child -- drew them close. When Neal suffered a debilitating stroke at just 39, Dahl oversaw a relentless program for her recovery.
        While Roald Dahl was deeply devoted to his mother, sisters and children, relishing the role of family man, he regularly cheated on Neal. The affairs were casual up until his mid-50s, when the writer fell in love with the 20-years-younger Felicity Crosland who, after much angst all around, became his second wife. The marriage proved a serenely happy one and allowed for the great final flourishing of the 1980s children's books: "The BFG," "The Witches," "Matilda" and the highly embroidered memoirs "Boy" and "Going Solo." I reviewed all these, and there's no denying his gripping power as a storyteller. J.K. Rowling, for one, clearly learned a lot from Dahl.
        Such is an overview of Roald Dahl's life, but only that. Sturrock's "Storyteller" is so packed with intimate details, sharply intelligent commentary and surprising revelations -- in an early draft of "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" the boy hero was black -- that it should be read immediately by anyone interested in Dahl, the ins and outs of modern publishing or the art of biography. I can't sing its praises enough.

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          EXLEY Brock Clarke

          Algonquin
          ISBN 978 1 56512 608 4
          303 pages
          $24.95

          Reviewed by Wendy Smith, a 2010 finalist for the National Book Critic Circle's Excellence in Reviewing Citation and a contributing editor at the American Scholar
          Brock Clarke reduced large swaths of the literary landscape to ashes in "An Arsonist's Guide to Writers' Homes in New England," his wickedly funny 2007 novel that skewered everything from book clubs and Harry Potter to falsified memoirs -- especially nervy, that last, since Clarke's text assumed the form of a memoir. Yet for all its wit, "An Arsonist's Guide" was deadly serious in its examination of the stories we tell ourselves about our lives and the awkward disconnect between reality and what we'd like to believe. It seems apt, then, that his new novel pays tribute (if you can call it that) to the real-life American novelist Frederick Exley and his 1968 "fictional memoir" called "A Fan's Notes."
          At the beginning of "Exley," 10-year-old Miller Le Ray tells us that "A Fan's Notes" is his father's favorite book. Indeed, it was the only book Miller ever saw him reading, and his father moved to Watertown, N.Y., because it was Exley's hometown. So when Miller learns "on Sunday, the eleventh of November" (a date that resonates with the opening sentence of "A Fan's Notes") that dad is back from Iraq and in a coma at the local VA hospital, he decides to go in search of Frederick Exley. If he can bring the author to meet his father, then somehow everything will be OK.
          There are a few difficulties with this scenario. Exley died in 1992, for starters. And it's not entirely certain where Miller's dad went eight months earlier when he left his wife crying in the driveway. "His mother believes strongly that his father left them, but not to join the army and not to go to Iraq," writes a therapist whose notes alternate with the boy's narrative. This first entry appears in the novel's epigraph, underneath a quote from "A Fan's Notes" that gives fair warning there will be no sure facts in the tale that follows.
          Clarke pulls off a nice trick here, playing postmodern games while delivering a cleverly plotted story complete with a surprise twist embedded in Miller's partial understanding of his parents' tension-riddled relationship. The payoff is a long time coming, however, and by no means alleviates the unease aroused by the preceding chapters, as Miller hunts for Exley and finds, first, a decrepit janitor at the New Parrot motel; next, a drunken customer at a bar called the Crystal; and last, a shotgun-wielding old man at the end of Oak Street. These locations will be familiar to those who know "A Fan's Notes," as will grotesquely comic developments that recall "An Arsonist's Guide." But black humor that was edgily appropriate in novels with adult protagonists is much more unsettling when employed to depict the misadventures of a young boy.
          Granted, Miller doesn't sound like any boy you've ever met, not even one who's in eighth grade and has recently read "Waiting for Godot." That's a problem; some of Clarke's stinging social observations suffer from being implausibly placed in Miller's mouth. The author is more skillful in crafting the words of Miller's therapist, an insecure man whose pompous description of himself as "a mental health professional" becomes a running joke, while his crush on his patient's beautiful mother evolves from creepy to oddly touching. She's a lawyer prosecuting cases of domestic abuse in the military at nearby Fort Drum, and fallout from the Iraq war swirls as an undercurrent to the story's main drift.
          The action gets increasingly bizarre. The therapist visits Miller, pretending to be Exley. Washington Post critic Jonathan Yardley makes a cameo appearance, reciting passages from "Misfit," his 1997 biography of Exley. All three head for Watertown's Brookside Cemetery, where Exley is buried. Or is he? Clarke keeps us guessing, rolling out a series of discoveries that indicate Miller has imagined the whole thing, including his father's presence at the VA hospital, then taking an abrupt turn to suggest that the boy may have got it right after all.
          What is clear, and what gives the novel its emotional weight, is that Miller feels a painful kinship with Exley and his errant father, discontented dreamers whose inability to deal with the real world is the despair of sensible women like his mother. She wants to tell her son the truth about his father and their marriage, but Miller desperately doesn't want to hear it because her truth is "full of everything I couldn't stand to see." Clarke swiftly rings down the curtain on their confrontation, leaving us to decide whether it's better to grow up and face facts, or to cling steadfastly to the illusions that make life bearable.

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          BEFORE YOU SUFFOCATE YOUR OWN FOOL SELF
          Danielle Evans
          Riverhead
          ISBN 978 1 59448 769 9
          232 pages
          $25.95

          Reviewed by Ron Charles, the fiction editor for The Washington Post. You can follow him on Twitter at www.twitter.com/roncharles.
          I hope Danielle Evans is a very nice person because that might be her only defense against other writers' seething envy. At 26, this D.C.-area author has already graduated from the Iowa Writers' Workshop, earned praise from Salman Rushdie and Richard Russo, and appeared in two (two!) volumes of "Best American Short Stories." Now comes the publication of her first collection, "Before You Suffocate Your Own Fool Self," eight quietly devastating stories that validate the hype. No, she's not the America's Next Top Model of the same name -- that would just be too much -- but she's captivating in a far more profound way.
          Lorrie Moore, one of the country's finest short story writers, recently said that she considered the form inherently melancholy, and that's an apt appraisal of Evans' work, though her stories are flecked with humor, too. As an African-American who grew up in Baileys Crossroads, she writes about black teenagers and college students -- sometimes older, occasionally male -- who live in a country still largely determined by race but tired of talking about it. The tensions of interracial dating are private now, and blacks work confidently as lawyers and professors, even as they search out black landlords who won't hassle them. The civil rights protests of their grandparents' era have settled into wry jokes and sarcastic realism.
          That attitude energizes a rueful story called "Harvest" about a group of Columbia University students. These young black women see ads in the campus newspaper offering up to $15,000 for human eggs, but they know well-heeled couples don't want their genetic material, no matter how high their SATs or how healthy their bodies. "Columbia credentials be damned," says the narrator. "If they had wanted brown babies who so obviously didn't belong to them, they would have just adopted." Even as the story appears to glide along with no more direction than the flow of dorm-room gossip, it quickly develops into an unsettling reflection on the calculus of race, sex and commerce before arriving at a moment of compromise that's as intimate as it is disturbing.
          That technique, the surprising dodge of moral responsibility that casts a character into deep regret and re-evaluation, works well in almost all these stories. The first one, "Virgins," is a deceptively casual tale of sexual initiation told by a 15-year-old girl in 1996. Evans, who teaches creative writing at American University, brings us right into the overconfident patter of these bored, anxious teens, kids who know sunscreen lotion is a white conspiracy, who know they deserve vastly more exciting lives, who know they can handle even the most dangerous situations. The narrator, Erica, resembles many of the people in this collection: She's smart but confused by the rules of teen life; eager to fit in, but conscious that she doesn't. Seeing a slutty girl at a bar, Erica says, "I wondered how you got to be a girl like that. Did you care too much what other people thought, or did you stop caring?" By the end of this powerful story, she gets a disturbing sense of just how far adrift she really is.
          English teachers still assigning John Knowles' "A Separate Peace" -- why? why? -- could enrich their classroom discussion by comparing it to Evans' "Snakes." It's a rich, shocking story about a 9-year-old black girl sent to spend the summer with her wealthy white grandmother in Tallahassee. On the grounds of the estate, the young narrator cavorts with a much-favored cousin under the increasingly displeased eye of their toxic grandmother, who warns the girls of man-eating pythons in the lake. Like Ian McEwan's "Atonement," it's a story about longing and what vengeance a young girl can set in motion. You'll never experience its revelation the same way you did the first time, but it rewards in other ways on repeat readings.
          Evans' greatest talent is her ability to create poignant moments of crisis in the lives of transient people who can't seem to connect with those they love. How quietly and easily the barriers between us are reinforced. In "Jellyfish," Eva waits eagerly for her father at a restaurant with the sense "that anyone could just by looking at her see that she did not belong to anyone, anywhere. ... Where once she'd taken her self-sufficiency for granted, somewhere in a dizzying string of morning afters she had started to feel her aloneness was a mark of incompletion, faintly spreading." And yet, when her father arrives, so eager to help her, to embrace her, he feels that "her whole life was an elaborate series of barricades against him."
          If there's some tonal and thematic redundancy in this collection, it's counterbalanced by such arresting stories as "Someone Ought to Tell Her There's Nowhere to Go." Set in the Washington area, the story involves an Iraq vet who comes home to discover -- as he expected -- that his girlfriend has moved in with a new guy. Determined to behave kindly and stay in her life any way he can, he volunteers to baby-sit her 5-year-old daughter. And what's the harm if this little one wants to call him "Daddy"? As a story of chronic alienation and post-traumatic stress, it's affecting and sweet, moving toward a tragicomic crisis that leaves this young vet staring into the conundrum of his intractable loneliness.
          Again and again, without any histrionics, but with a clear appreciation for the natural drama of our mundane lives, Evans frames such questions in a way that will resonate with any thoughtful reader.

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